“We make a living by what we get; we make a life by what we
give.”
Sir Winston Churchill, British Politician (b.
1874, d.1965)
Good
News: Contribution is best provided by direct service providers (a.k.a. service
leaders). Some people believe a false concept that direct service providers are
not leaders because they are often at the bottom of the organizational chart.
They might assume that only managers and people in administration are leaders.
The real truth is that the service provider can be a very great and wise
leader.
Hermann
Hesse’s (1932) novel, Journey to the East
illustrates how the servant can be a leader. The main character of the story,
Leo is the servant for a party that is taking a journey across the desert. Leo
is described as being: happy, pleasant, having good rapport with others, and is
viewed as a simple hard-working servant. Leo becomes a key leader because the
members of the party realize they are not able to make their journey across the
desert without the skills and abilities that Leo has. The party is so dependent
on Leo that he ultimately becomes the “Servant Leader.” Without him, the party
could not make the journey. All employees in health and human services could be
this same type of leader. The organization needs people just like you to
survive and strive.
Ultimately,
the contribution (what you do) is more important that what a person receives
(Rewards). Some experts (Scheele, 2004) argue that most of our worldly possessions
that we have received will be in a landfill in 50 years from today or less.
Many of our technological devices may be outdated a lot quicker. Our flat
screen televisions, laptop computers, and cellphones could be in a landfill in
the next 10-15 years.
Scheele
(2012) argues in his book We Put a Man onthe Moon: Thoughts on Living a Better Story that people on their death bed
do not look back and say I wish I had a 2nd beach house or I wish I
had more money in my bank account, or I wish I had more cars. Scheele believes
that people want to reflect back and say they had lived a life story that was
worth living. They will feel glad that they had made a contribution to this
world.
I Hope You Dance is a country-pop song written by Mark Sanders and Tia Sillers and sung
by Lee Ann Womack on her (2000) album with the same name that best captivates
the concept on doing something meaningful with your life. The lyrics are: “Time
is a wheel in constant motion always rolling us along. Tell me who wants to
look back on their years and wonder where those years have gone?” Dance is a
metaphor to do something with your life opposed to missing the opportunity.
You’re Invited to DO THIS Now:
I’m writing to invite you to
consider taking steps today to start making a greater contribution. Please make
a personal pledge that you will give more at work, at your home with your
family, with your friends, and during your leisure and hobbies. Giving it your
best could help you to feel like you are living a life worth living.
Action Step: Write down a quick checklist with 10 things you can do to make a contribution. Do it right now while it is fresh on your mind. Sign it. Date it. Do it. Make a difference. Email me, Danny, Admin [at] DannyPettry.Com once you've done a few things on your checklist. We'll share these things at this blog.
About the author: Danny Pettry II has worked as a Recreational Therapist at a psychiatric hospital in West Virginia for ten years. He has held Certified Therapeutic Recreation Specialist (CTRS) credentials since 2003. Pettry has a M.S. degree in Recreational Therapy from Indiana University and an undergraduate degree in the field from Marshall University, Huntington, W.Va.
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References
Scheele, K. (2012). We put
a man on the moon: Thoughts on living a better story. (1st ed.). Publishing
City Unknown: Self-Published.
Tye, J. (2009). The Florence prescription: From
accountability to ownership: The next frontier for patient satisfaction,
workplace productivity, and employee loyalty. Solon, IA: Values Coach, Inc.
Womack, L. (2000). I hope you
dance. On I hope you dance [CD].
Nashville, TN: MCA Nashville.
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